For much of my life I felt fear. Fear of being disliked, hated, abandoned, or misunderstood. So I spent a crazy amount of time and energy trying to make sure people liked me, didn't leave or think I said anything that they didn't like.
Did you KNOW you can nice your way out of relationships faster than you can any other way?
It was so great to finally learn to be ok with being me. To know that those who disliked me were going to do it with or without my consent, and I finally learned that saying good bye can sometimes be a good and timely thing.
It was not an easy lesson, the fear of being left alone was a big one to get over...but let me tell you, since getting this, all the empty spots have been filled. And might I add filled brilliantly with quality people of great compassion, love and energy. The creative juices flow when you are in an environment of peace and acceptance.
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